SILENCE-The Ultimate Weapon

Silence of our Loved ones can be a Lethal Weapon

"Silence Speaks Better Than Words" always heard this saying but never gave a thought to it neither did i realize the power it withholds. But recently i realized that it really makes sense sometimes to follow it. Though for normal people it might be difficult to follow as our rational mind denies to keep silent when things are going wrong and there's lot of furry everywhere.


But then; if we give a deep thought we realize that when actually things are going worst for you  when they are going just opposite to what you might have thought and when you are taken by unexpected changes [behavioral or beliefs] there's no point in going wild and trying to sort out things that moment, as it only adds in the fuss and makes things more complicated and unsolvable.


At such moments if we keep silence, it makes lot of sense as it gives us and our companion the time needed to think "Why is this Happening? Whats the issue after all? Whats the solution to it?"
When we confront above questions one by one and sincerely try to answer them we find it much easy to solve them and come out of that so uncomfortable situation. So it makes a real sense sometimes to be smart rather than outbursting and going all guns blazing to solve some issues.


Now lets take a different situation wherein your companion is mad in temper and you are facing the music, even here if you keep your cool and maintain silence more often than not it works!
Simple logic implies that a person can go on and on; but if no one responds, he stops and gives it a thought that after all what is he doing. Sometimes it also helps in a relationship as your partner gets that cushion to speak her heart out and remove her frustration knowing that you will understand.

Finally lets take a case where your competitors are going all blaze against you abusing you planning plots against you and trying to defame you, under such circumstances I agree you have to respond, but wait strike at appropriate moment until then hold on to your biggest weapon "SILENCE". Your enemies will wonder why you are calm and that will make them rationalize your move making them think what you must be thinking and in doing so giving you that opportunity to strike, and when you get it go for it and strike hard.
















-Aditya Kasar (AK)